A Black male space

By LaMaiya Wright

This Black male space is completely male dominated, except for the one Black woman that braids hair and/or re-twist dreadlocks. However, even her presence is partial because the owner assigned her to the booth in the far back of the barbershop. This space is lined up with 3 chairs alongside both the right and left walls. These chairs are often occupied with black men getting fresh line ups and tapers by fellow black barbers. What makes this space a black space is the black art that rests on the walls, the big beautiful black laughter, the profanity, the jokes, and the constant toss of the word “nigga” used as a term of endearment.

Occasionally, conversation may turn serious debating black politics, sports highlights, and racial issues. What’s so distinct about this space? Well. it is one of the very few outlets that the black man has to let his hair down (figuratively and literally), live in his truth, and be his full authentic self.

For me, this space creates the opportunity for someone like me to witness black boy joy. I have not been to many barbershops, but the few that I have encountered was full of fun. This space is a great way to see a black male in his casual element.

This space, however, does not come without restriction. For some, this space can be a bashing site for the average black woman. I have no doubt that the occasional misogynistic remark is thrown around in regard to black women. This is a not a space for a black woman to discuss her grievances with her black man, nor is it a space for a black women to come and voice her opinions.

Related:
• AALCI 2020